Clients with Disability - scarlettbwilde.com

For those clients who find themselves with some sort of restriction –

either physically, intellectually or even emotionally / mentally

– Scarlett offers a service that can be inclusive of you and your true self.

How can Scarlett help ?

I’ve seen many clients with disability over the years. In fact, nearly 40% of my income these days comes from this sector.
There isn’t much I haven’t seen or been through during my career.

I have seen clients in many situations including my place, group homes and independent living.
I’ve connected with siblings, support/plan managers and Guardianships.

As a mature woman, I also understand the humanity and difficulties that can arise within the disability community.

Graphic of client in a wheelchair asking if service is disability friendly. Answered Yes.

I have seen clients with:

Asperger’s
Bi-Polar
Brain Injury
Cerebral Palsy
Intellectual Development
Multiple Sclerosis
Neurodiversity
Paraplegic
Skin Conditions
Spina Bifida
Spinal Injury
Schizophrenia

Not only can I provide the personal and sexual touch that human beings crave, I can also adapt my communication, using different styles or AAC boards for best client outcomes.

I’m also able to assist clients achieve their relationship / personal goals as outlined in the NDIS.
I can also educate and give clients lived experience through embodied sexual education.

Are you supporting another’s sex life?

Below are some questions to ask your Client before going ahead with a sex worker.
This is designed to help you in the booking process of a sex worker.

Click the questions below for more details.

What availability does the client have ?

I understand that at first, you might just want to know a few details, yet a client’s availability can / does dictate the price and service rendered. Having a quick conversation about when a client is available for service is needed.

It’s tempting to just say whenever, yet there are times better than others.
A client might have physical lulls during the day and only be active in the mornings in which case, late afternoon or evenings would be out. Energy levels are a good conversation to have with a client as they want to be at their best.

Then there’s also frequency. If the client wants to connect once every 4-6 weeks this is very different from every 6 months.

What impairments does the client have ?

The more information I have about a client’s unique needs the better I can be of service to them and ultimately get their sexual needs met.

Do they/you need any specific tools ( ie, AAC or eye movements )? What are they ?

I have had a wide range of experiences with clients living with disability and will share my experience on which options might lead to better outcomes for the client / yourself.

Is the client able to move or will Scarlett have to come to them ?

Basically, if I have to travel to the client, then the price will be higher.
It’s a good idea to have an understanding of distance. Very few workers will travel a long distance for a short period of time.

I’m based in Newtown, NSW. I don’t have a hoist and understand that some clients are very limited in their mobility, yet understand that I’m not inclined to travel 1 hour each way for a 30mins booking. Especially on a busy night such as a Friday evening.

What’s the distance from Newtown, NSW ?

I’m based in Newtown, NSW. 4.2km from the Sydney CBD.
What’s the distance from Newtown ?

I have a manual wheelchair-friendly entrance on the ground floor, yet please advise if a ramp is needed.

There’s on-street parking or a driveway to drop off clients and pick them up again.

For more details about my location- click here

What’s your budget for services offered ?

I get it… you’re thinking ” yeah, but what’s the cost? ”

That will be determined by many factors. Some clients may be looking for a one-off. Many clients may be looking for a special woman on a semi / regular basis.

For those of you who are looking to use NDIS funds, speaking to a client about the frequency of sexual contact the client desires can help you align within the budget. eg $2400 per year gives you 200 a month.

You can see my rates here.

What is the client looking for ?

This booking will be about the client. Not the parents, support staff or guardians, but the client. Yes, consideration needs to be made towards respect to others who may be in the vicinity of services offered, yet I always ask, what’s in the best interest of the client ?

This can be a difficult time for support staff or even parents yet it’s important that if a client’s needs aren’t met, there’s no point to the booking is there ?

It’s best to discuss with clients about their individual needs, this ensures a more personal, caring and enjoyable time together. I appreciate that this can be a difficult conversation to have yet consider the opportunity to model to a client that sex isn’t something to be ashamed about. There’s also an opportunity to demonstrate when appropriate times are and aren’t.

I will be asking about this. Please be ready.

What experience has the client had before ?

This is an important question as it can help me/you understand the needs of the client.

Have you had a conversation with the client about their previous experience ?
Have they had a partner ?
Have they received any sex education ?
Can they consent ?
Have they seen a sex worker before ? How did that go ?

How safe is all this ?

Hiring a sex worker is a lot like hiring any other service provider like a dentist or electrician. You have a choice in whom you choose and engage with and so do I. I’m a human being first and a sex worker second. You can talk to me. If you’re uncertain about anything please ask questions to remove all doubt.

I have been in business for 14+ years now, if I were any threat, dishonest or distrustful I wouldn’t be around any more.

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Scarlett has a clear and concise Privacy Policy that outlines how your information is collected, used, and stored. This allows you to understand Scarlett’s practices and make informed decisions.

Privacy is something I take very seriously

My workplace is based in Newtown NSW and is manual wheelchair friendly- 73cm entrance. The inside is spacious and purpose-built for sexual services, yet discrete so clients can arrive/leave with privacy.

For those with NDIS funding

On Oct 3rd 2024, the NDIS removed support to seeing a sex worker. While funding can be used for things including transport and support worker to assist you, no services can be charged under the NDIS.

My prices are listed on my Rates page.

For those carers contacting me on behalf of another, it’s in the best interest that the client chooses me, instead of the other way round. The client should consent to see me first, before contacting me regarding services.

Below I share my thoughts about sex work and disability

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