It’s hard to believe that I’ve been around for some time- 14+ years in fact.
The reason for that is I’ve had a break from sex work through burnout and then made my way to Sydney, and the rest.. well is history.
So what is my History ?
Started Work Privately
Feeling disillusioned with the corporate world, I quit work and started sex work full time. Jumped in with both feet. Silly, huh?! Well… yes and no.
… Read on.
Started Webcam
Things weren’t as busy as I had hoped and so I jumped into the world of webcam. This is a world within itself and I’ll say that in my time I learnt a hell of a lot about human sexuality from a practical side. The anonymous nature of webcam means I see a lot of ‘deepest desires’. Way more exposure than in my kink days, yet my history allows others to share.
I start to specialise in fetishes as my exposure goes up significantly. This will impact me later in my sex work journey.
Moved to Sydney
One thing I hadn’t considered when entering sex work is that archaic laws that govern the states. Sex work is hindered by many laws except in NSW.
Determined to give sex work a real go I move on
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Studied Human Psychology
Coming from a business background I thought that this sex work thing would be easy. How wrong I was. Despite having years of experience within the swinger and kink scenes, commercialisation of sexual services brings it’s own trials and tribulations.
I learnt a hell of a lot about the humans that see me, their motivations and drivers. This help me greatly in the room as sex work very much is a soft skill. It isn’t just what happens in the room yet how a client is processing and experiencing.
My time in the room with clients is enhanced greatly. My returning clients up 8 fold.
Quit Webcam
My personal private clients started to become regular.
My insistence of being boutique and not been a ‘wham, bam, thank you mam‘ worker has paid off.
I’ve regular clients whom keep me busy and also at this point I’ve fully worked out what type of worker I am and who my clients are.
Studied Sexological Bodywork
I’m seeing a lot of clients with disability due to my accessible nature, hence I decide that a form of ‘physical’ sexual therapy is needed by many clients, as a lot asked. So I embark on the journey
Not only do I open the scope on clients that I see, yet the skills learnt also helps almost every client as my understanding of sexuality grows exponentially.
Move into Fantastic new premises
I open a location specifically for sexual services. All the collection of toys and paraphernalia I’ve collected in my time I put to full use.
Location is accessible to people with disability, I have a full time kink room and role plays are much easier and enjoyable.
A new journey ahead.
Who knows what is ahead …. I plan to be around for another decade at least !
Hi there. I am an occasional client – every few months or so. Just wanted to say I like your new test website. Informative, well laid out and fun. Hope you make it official soon. I hope to catch up with you again in the next couple of months and maybe try out some of your other offerings like being bound and teased and more. Cheers, Mark