Who’s a good boy then ?!?!
You ?!
…. Now are you?
To some, the ultimate gift of appreciation of one’s Mistress is to surrender pleasure. To offer their own pleasure to another in a committed act of submission. This act can and does have other effects. The act of securing the genitals can bring around an awareness of other forms of sexuality, and its expression of it. Like how the removal of one sense heights the remaining senses, so too can the act of chastity.
Ownership is another aspect that comes into play when bound in chastity. The slave’s literally ‘giving’ of their most pleasure-sensitive body part ( besides the brain ) can and does bring other sensations and pleasure centres to the forefront. And due to the slow nature of chastity, comes a chance to explore others and feel other sensations like Compersion.
Those who seek to further the pleasures of tease and denial especially love the act of being ‘Locked & Owned’.
And me ? …. I am happy to own you.
I’ve always liked the idea of being caged and have tried a few devices over many years, but reality has a habit of spoiling the party. Perhaps it’s just my anatomy. After an hour of pushing and pulling my balls through the hoop, and finally locking them in without uprooting great tuffs of pubic hair, the little buggers escape in the blink of an eye, leaving me exhausted, sore and in no mood for a restorative wank.
I’ve found a few clients have needed to go through a few devices before finding an appropriate one. Measuring is certainly needed.
Also you might be missing the point a bit. The cage is a symbol of chastity and a client can be locked in his cage a full week before seeing me.
He appreciates not just an orgasm, but the full spectrum of sexuality including the denial of it. It extends the play and his pleasure is amplified and extended.
A Mistress can be a great guide towards opening up of one’s sexual journey.